I will openly admit that
procrastination has become something constant in my life, as bad as it may
sound. Actually, I think that it has somehow morphed into some sort of chronic
procrastination problem, because despite the best intentions I end up trying to
finish things at the last minute. I often find myself resorting to the old “I’ll
just do it tomorrow” mindset, which has put more pressure on myself in the
end.
Procrastination can come in
many forms, whether it’s a project, doing the dishes or calling a family
member. Procrastination can take on a negative role in a person’s life, and the
longer it goes on the severity increases. Although, some claim to excel on their last minute efforts. Once a pattern is formed it becomes
comfortable to stay within whatever pattern it is. If someone forms a pattern
of procrastinating, they tend to do so more often and eventually do not
complete tasks. In order to overcome procrastination it is pertinent that if you are doing a task it gets done in a timely manner and completed. This may be difficult, but the results are worth it.
If anyone is willing to share some stories about procrastination or ask questions you are more than welcome to!
Have a wonderful week,
-Jane Marie
Ok - so here is what I need help with......
ReplyDeleteI am use to getting things done quickly because I have a lot that needs doing and I don't need the added stress that comes with being behind. So I have to rely on various people to help get projects done or collect information to assist in making good decisions. There is one person who is always late doing his or her part and when confronted (in a kind but direct way) immediately gets defensive. The result is that I back off but the project is now behind and all the people who got their parts done on time are mad. Procrastenation for what ever reason is a passive aggressive behavior when it controls other people - the procrastenator is in charge and we all dance to his or her tune. Any ideas on how to approach this person to work together to solve the problem? FYI this problem has been addressed before with short term behavior change, unfortunately the person's behavior invariably reverts back and procrastination once again rules the day.
ZP
I agree that in several scenarios the procrastinator seems to have charge over the situation. I think there are a few ways that could possibly help,depending on the relationship you have with this person can determine how it is handled.Dealing with other people can generally be seen as a balancing act, trying to resolve the problem at hand without stepping on their toes. My best advice is to be as straight forward in stating the urgency and importance of the task, without being harsh. Also it helps to have compassion for the other person because in certain situations we are not always aware there are personal obstacles that are preventing the project completion.
ReplyDeleteI hope this helps!
-Jane Marie